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The Kink Knowledge Base
Plain, respectful explanations of the roles, dynamics, kinds of play and safety practices that make up BDSM and kink. Written by Sanctum, for adults, with consent at the centre.
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Clearguides
Tasks and rewards on Sanctum
How tasks and rewards work on Sanctum: Dominants assign daily, weekly or one-off tasks, track completion and issue rewards, with no money involved.
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Edging and orgasm control
How orgasm control works as a D/s practice: edging, permission, denial and ruined orgasms, and how to negotiate it so it builds trust rather than resentment.
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Tease and denial
Tease and denial as a scene or a lifestyle: building arousal without release, why it works, common variations, and how to keep it a pleasure.